Thursday, 10 July 2008

Don’t be like every other guy. Open and escalate.

Drunk and Lonely Theory

Fact 1 - Girls go out to get laid.
Fact 2 – 9O% of guys’ game sucks.

Fact 3 - A girl cannot have sex with a guy she is NOT attracted to. Due to Fact 2 she is sexually frustrated.
Fact 4 - At
3.00 am the girl is at home, sexually frustrated, “drunk and lonely”.

Look at the number of girls that leave between 12 pm and 3 am every single night (without guys) and you'll see that this is true. If they weren't looking for NEW guys they wouldn't be all dolled up at a bar. So they obviously didn't get what they were looking for. Guys keep letting her down!

These girls are desperate to meet fun, confident guys who actually go talk to them rather than stare all night OR make one liners at them all night.

Girls spend time finding the right clothes, getting her hair styled, applying makeup and countless other rituals before going out and then she has dozens of guys looking at her, but they never approach. By the end of the night, these micro-rejections are just as annoying as the single rejection a guy gets because in the end she didn’t get what she went out for.

Even it a girl has a crystal clear idea of who their “ideal” guy is, that doesn’t mean she will pursue him if she finds him. You have got to feel sorry for girls. As ridiculous as it seems, you have to do most of the work in meeting and pursuing girls and she fully expects you to make the first move as well as the next twenty moves. Even when girls go out together to meet guys, they’ll still sit back and wait to be approached. The point is that with most things in life, if you want it, you have to go get it.

So while you’re responsible for “making it happen”, realize that you get to make all the decisions on who you approach, when you approach, leading the conversation, when you meet up, and so on.

Besides, girls love to be hit on.

They communicate largely through body language and they expect men to understand their wants and needs without verbalizing them. Girls believe when they give out these signals a confident, experienced guy will take the appropriate actions. If a girl is giving you strong eye contact or sending other signals-of-interest then the girl expects you to go talk to her. She will make herself available for the pursuit.

And the end of the day though all girls really think about is getting some DICK.

They go out SPECIFICALLY to get LAID or if not they go out to meet fun, confident guy and meet up another time (to get LAID J)

There’s only one situation: Girl looks hot in order to meet fun, confident guy who will approach, take the lead, and then fuck the shit out of her.

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